Hurting people are mean, they attack, find fault, .....

Hurting people hurt people. Hurting people are mean, they attack, find fault, criticize, run down, condemn, focus on others because if they focus on others they do not have to deal with the shit in their own hearts. They stick their noses where they do not belong and keep the pot stirred so that with all the ruckus they make they cannot and will NOT take PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHATEVER shit that is going on in their own hearts, lives, relationships,.....

I forgive you but because of your past actions I do NOT trust you. Trust is earned NOT given.

Judging is when I think I know why someone did something without communicating with them personally.

After 48 years and some codependent enabling relationships for most of those years I had to learn BOUNDARIES, REAL forgiveness, PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY, REAL love....there are some that even though I do everything I can to work things out they refuse the way of peace, REAL love, and choose to continue in their mess, dysfunction, mean, nasty, hateful ,ugly,....strife, gossip,....dishonor, disrespect,.... For those types I try to communicate with them and set boundaries however if they continue to dishonor themselves/me/others..... then I REAL love love 'em, forgive 'em, bless 'em, pray 'em but I do it from a loooooooooong way off. Proverbs tells me to "Guard my heart with ALL diligence for out of it flows my life, health, emotions, wealth, .....other relationships.

The God of Peace designed my body to live in peace and when I don't the consequences could cost me my life, health, wealth,....other relationships. Jesus is the Prince of Peace, God is the God of Peace, the REAL Gospel message is the Gospel of Peace and I am to be sharing the too good to be true REAL news of Peace to the world because of the finished and completed work of Jesus Christ.

Suppressed thoughts with their embedded emotions will explode. Our brains are designed to acknowledge, repent and forgive. ~ Dr. Caroline Leaf

"Repent means to change your mind"

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Forgiveness means to send away the offense. It has nothing to do with the other person, them forgiving/ doing/ receiving it or not, ..... it is ALL about me and my heart and my actions. I send it away because it could cost me my life, health/ dis-ease, wealth,..other relationships.

Forgiving you gives me PEACE
Giving yourself peace is your job NOT mine.
Forgiving you does NOT mean I TRUST YOU
Forgiving you does NOT mean I want you in my life!

“When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.” ~ R. Muller

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” ~ Lewis B. Smedes

“When a deep injury is done us, we never recover until we forgive” ~ Alan Paton

I can move past what others have done to me. But I can never move past my unforgiveness ~ Dr Jim Richards

HIS Love For Me......

REAL Love IS Value

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REAL Love is value. You protect who/what you value. You spend time with who/what you value. You give attention to who/what you value. You think about who/what you value. You can always tell who/what someone values by the degree of joy it brings them. The art collector spends millions of dollars for the opportunity to stand for hours looking at some rare painting, just for the joy it brings him. To communicate preciousness and high regard is love expressed. So, I guess that’s why I love to see my kids even when they’re driving me crazy, why Brenda is still the one I want to be with more than anyone else and why I never want to have even a second where I do not feel the presence of my God! Express your love to the people in your life and the God in your heart. What you don’t use you lose; what you don’t feed dies. The love you don’t communicate is worse than an open rebuke (Prov. 27:5)! ~ Dr Jim Richards

Hurting People Hurt People


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REAL Love is able to see the......

Every Seed Bears After Its Own Kind......

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Posted Dec. 10, 2012
Revised January 10, 2015

Hurting people hurt people. Because the majority of the 'church'/ALL religions, including christianity/those in government/the world,...... have been brought up on another gospel i.e. fear, hell, fire, brimstone,....force, manipulation, control,..... fear, fear, fear,....ALL negative emotional states are just another form, fashion, aspect, degree of fear. Fear is the seed that is sown, planted, ....and it has a harvest. 

For the most part WE ALL were born into our worlds ...... with hell, fire, brimstone, damnation,........Every seed produces after its own kind. This is a law, just like gravity, that God/Source/......placed into flow and it is true here too. ALL they, religion, government, manipulating, controlling, ...... focus on is the negative.

Every Seed Bears After Its Own Kind......

If a negative feeling or a negative thought drives me to speak words or take actions this means that the outcome of those words and or actions will produce more of the negative feelings and or thoughts that started the whole process. I cannot be driven by negative feelings and ultimately have healthy positive outcomes. So many times I am moved by fear, desperation,...(a negative emotion) and I try to tell myself it is "faith", or this is ok, "good", ..... and in the end it all goes wrong and then I act like I don't understand why my faith, beliefs, actions,  failed. I have to notice what is driving me and if it is not harmonious with REAL love I have to send it away and put on something else. 

If I am in negative emotional fear state (anger, bitterness, unforgivness, betrayal, self hatred, sorrow, sadness, insecurity, worthless, conflict, grief, self abuse, disdain, heartache, embarrassment, judgement, ......) when I am living, doing, teaching, sharing, posting something on a social network, writing a book, paper, blog,..... then the results and the harvest is NOT going to be what I want. If I do something in a negative fear state then the harvest that I am going to get will NOT be what I want and that is where all the crazy negative nasty results come from. Because of what has been written on my heart/sub conscious....if the beliefs, feelings, emotions,...are out of a negative fear state I will produce a life of fear, chaos, hurt, discouragement,....

REAL love annihilates ALL fear. The REAL God is REAL love and perfect REAL love casts out ALL fear. When my foundation is built on REAL love and all my seed i.e. doctrine, teachings,....understanding, wisdom, knowledge,... emotions, feelings,..... comes out of REAL love then and only then will my house, life, health, wealth, relationships,.....stand and not be moved.


God is NOT in control of the weather.......

REAL love.....

The  REAL Story.....

REAL Forgiveness...

One-Way Love

Posted March o6, 2012
One-Way Love

We love the “if/then” proposition: “If” you do this, “then” I will do that; we are inveterate slaves (at worst) or grumpy employees (at best). We militate against the freedom of inheritance and the dependency of sonship. We love living as though “what goes around comes around” conditionality were true. That kind of conditionality makes us feel safe. It’s easy to comprehend. It’s appropriately formulaic. And best of all, it keeps us in control. We get to keep our ledgers and scorecards. The equation: “If I do this, then you are obligated to do that” makes perfect sense to our grace-shy hearts.
Unconditionality, on the other hand, is incomprehensible. We are deeply conditioned against unconditionality .......CLICK> CONTINUE

God is NOT in control of the weather.....

Posted March 4, 2012

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Anyone who can see something like this and say God did it or allowed does not understand what love is. ~ Pastor Allen Speegle ~

God is NOT in control of the weather, this earth,.. ...WE ARE. He gave us dominion over this earth and because the hearts of ALL of humanity have grown cold, do NOT know REAL love,.....the fear that is rampant through out this whole earth is what is causing all the malfunctions to happen. Greed is fear. Anger is fear. Unforgiveness is fear. All negative emotional states are FEAR.........ALL negative emotional states are just different degrees of fear.

Every Seed Bears After Its Own Kind.....
Every Seed Bears After Its Own Kind.....

Because most of us came into the Kingdom with hell, fire and brimstone preaching the results of those /messages/ teaching/energy are what we are experiencing today. God knew this was going to happen that is why it is in the Bible.

I can change my OWN PERSONAL heart at anytime. When my dignity, honor, worth, esteem, ....is in the toilet taking PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY for anything is impossible and therefore I blame a defeated (as Smegol in the Lord of the Rings) devil, God, others, ......so that it's not my fault it's the devil, God, government, spouse, children,my parents, those teenagers, t.v., Hollywood, ....becomes the excuse.


REAL love......

REAL Love is able to see the......

REAL Love is able to see the wrong and still find the good. Love is able to see the weakness and point out the strength. Love is able to be offended by the sin but tenderly love the sinner. Love is able to listen patiently and preserve self-worth. Love qualifies you to remove the splinter when the person is ready (respect their timing). And love says the greatest thing you can do for your neighbor is to pull the log out of your own eye. ~ Dr Jim Richards

God is love. The heart of the Gospel is love. Love is a product of the spiritual health of our heart. Loving one another is the evidence that we are experiencing God. There is no greater way to gauge and evaluate the condition of our heart than our ability to give and receive love. Love is manifest through our willingness and capacity to develop ourselves for meaningful relationships. All of life’s boundaries are a product of the beliefs of our heart. Therefore, the more I give myself to the love of God and the love of people, the more I harmonize myself with the nature of God. The more I harmonize with the nature of God the more I can function in my God-like nature, which means the more I move past the boundaries to a wonderful life! ~ Dr. Jim Richards

REAL Love IS Value

HIS REAL Love for me........

REAL Love........

Posted March 1, 2012

Sinuses, Sinus Infections, Stuffy Nose .....

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Time Required: 3 to 5 minutes

Here's How:

1. Fill the neti pot with water. The water should be lukewarm (not too hot, not too cold) and can be poured into the pot directly from the tap (approximately 1/2 cup of water). Distilled water is recommended if the purity/safety of the tap water in your region is questionable.
2. Add 1/4 to 1/2 teaspoon of REAL salt (pink) from health food store to the water. Stir with spoon to dissolve thoroughly. Add 3 drop of Lavender or 1 drop of Tea Tree oil and a squirt of Pure Aloe
3. Lean your head forward over the basin or best get in shower, bending your neck down slightly with your eyes looking downwards.
4. Gently place the spout of the neti pot inside your right nostril, forming a seal to avoid any outer leakage.
5. Open your mouth slightly. Breathe continuously through your open mouth during this sinus cleansing procedure. This allows a necessary air passageway so that the water will not drain from behind your nose into your mouth.
   
   
6. Tilt your head sideways, so that your right nostril is directly above your left nostril. Tip the neti pot, allowing the water solution to pour into your right nostril. Within a few seconds the water will naturally drain from your left nostril into the sink.
   
   
7. After the net pot is empty, remove the spout from your right nostril, and exhale through both nostrils. Gently blow your nose into a tissue.
8. Repeat steps 1 through 7 for your left nostril.

Tips:

1. Thoroughly clean your Neti Pot after each use. Periodically place it in your dishwasher for a thorough sanitizing.Same as a toothbrush, do not share your neti pot with anyone else. Everyone in the household should have their own neti pot.
2. Try using only half the amount of recommended salt the first few times you use your neti pot until you become more accustomed to the process.
3. Applying a thin layer of petroleum jelly on the inside of both nostrils before the treatment helps sooth sensitive skin.
4. You may notice improved breathing, smell and taste.
   
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